How many times have you asked yourself: "She wants to be my girlfriend or does my intuition betray me"?
The thing is, you can't get into someone else's head and find out. But there is a body language that never (almost) lies. There are always signs that can indicate that something in the girl's attitude has moved towards you.
We've collected those signs, bookmarked them, and revised them whenever you get this "feeling."
10 clear signs that she wants to be your girlfriend
Okay, first of all, there are no "signs that I want to be your girlfriend." A girl may have a crush on you, but that doesn't always mean she wants to jump into something bigger right away. Also, call it old school, but if you don't take the first step, a lot of girls will force themselves and deny their feelings. It's not as difficult as you think. Girls may need a little more time to focus on someone else, but if they don't see your interest, they will.
Instead of calling it "signs that she wants to be your girlfriend," we'll call it "signs that she might be in love with you." Boys have as excellent intuition as girls, right? But in case you want to check it again, go ahead.
Note that you can be sure a girl likes you if 5 or MORE signs show evidence. In other cases, it may just be a coincidence.
Sign No 1: Occasionally touches
"To love means to want to touch"
OK, you don't want to argue with the teacher. But joking aside, this makes sense. A girl can instinctively touch you, sometimes even before she knows it herself. According to behavior analyst Jack Schafer, a light touch from a woman simply indicates that she likes you. The reason behind touching someone you like is simple: A sought-after intimacy lives on a subconscious level, so you may not even "take the feeling in your head" while your instincts do their work.
Sign No 2: Change her haircut and start putting on makeup
Ok, it may not exactly be a new haircut or makeup. But if she suddenly turns from a grey mouse to an attractive girl, she may do so for simply three reasons:
· He likes you;
· He likes someone in your company;
· Something in your life has changed and you are experiencing some personality changes.
The latter is rarer.
Sign No 3: Start talking about other men in front of you
Sometimes girls don't want to give themselves away, so they start talking about other guys who want to hang out with them informally. If you haven't had such conversations before, this may indicate the same thing. A girl who likes you may occasionally mention her male friends or chat about their dates.
Signal No 4: Eye contact is broken
Mark Manson, the number one bestselling author for the NYTimes focusing on relationships, says that if a girl breaks eye contact with you, she may feel intimidated, that is, attracted to, or avoiding you for some other reason (such as if she owes you something or is has forgotten something and now feels sorry). Therefore, it does not necessarily refer to definite signs that she wants to be your girlfriend, but along with other "red flags," it can mean that she is interested.
Sign No. 5: Eye contact for more than 3 seconds
Prolonged eye contact usually means that a girl is interested in you. A simple explanation: he wants to inspect you. It can happen in 2-3 seconds when you see something eye-catching (i.e. accessories). 4 seconds or more means that something is happening.
In particular, you can tell if you suddenly realize that you are in the presence of another person. And it is constantly repeated.
Sign No 6: Laughing, laughing, smiling in front of you
Laughing from the belly is good, especially when girls do that with your jokes. It generally means two things:
· Your jokes are really funny;
· A girl stands you out from the crowd.
It doesn't necessarily refer to the signs that she wants to be your girlfriend, but it goes in line with other gifts that she can express her sympathy in that way.
Sign No 7: Lips licking and playing with her necklace
One of the hidden signs that he likes you could be that he is licking his lips while he is with you. She can bite or lick them and do this completely unconsciously. Women do not lick their lips in front of men who are not interested in them. You can also do it out of nervousness. If she is not comfortable, she will touch things around her to avoid a lot of chatter.
Sign No 8: She is outraged with other girls
A girl who likes you gets jealous when you show interest in other women. Girls cannot hide jealousy (very rarely). So you can monitor her while you flirt with other girls (a bit). If she changes her face and makes a face of embarrassment, then yes, she is jealous. You can refer this to as a sign that he wants to be your girlfriend.
Sign No 9: She is willing to open her heart if she is in love with you
A girl will not reveal her deep emotions to someone whom she considers insecure. By revealing something internal, you open up their vulnerability, and you don't want to do that unless you trust a person, right? A girl may be willing to open up in two cases: 1) she trusts you as a friend 2) she likes you.
By the way, the dumbest thing you can do is ruin their confidence.
Sign No 10: She wants to know you more
A girl who likes you may ask you a lot of questions about your past, to find common ground or just for interest. Girls don't often talk to others about their past without good reason.
Sign No 11: An obvious flirtation
In the end, there is an obvious flirtation. Some girls prefer to go straight to you, dropping clues here and there. It's not a pleasant feeling, we agree, but the hardest part is figuring out how to gently reject it. These are not necessarily signs that he wants to be your girlfriend, but it indicate that he is trying to show you that there is room for sexual chemistry.
Ok, she likes me. What's Next?
Once you've discovered that she wants to be in a relationship with you, it's time to decide how to act accordingly.
Here are some suggestions: If you don't feel like rushing into something serious, don't do anything. Let us tell you something that can, like, open up a whole new world: if you don't act, the girl will find someone else and change her attention, sooner or later. So if you're not ready for a relationship or something, just act casually.
If the girl starts to show obvious signs, you may want to talk to her.
In case you think you like this girl; you should take the first step. Seriously, that's your part.
1) A girl may never make the first move.
2) If you feel good about being in a relationship started by a girl, you can wait for her to start things. How long? Go to point 1.